Fizza Qibtia originally shared: Lessons from Islam’s Greatest Women
Balancing Family Life, Work and Faith: Lessons from Islam’s Greatest Women - Productive MuslimThroughout the history of Islam, women have played a major role in spreading the sacred message of Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He).
Examples of these great women have been mentioned by the Prophet Muhammad ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) who has praised and exhorted the superiority of the Maryam, Asiya the wife of Pharoah, Khadijah raḍyAllāhu ‘anha (may Allāh be pleased with her) Mother of the Believers, and Fatimah raḍyAllāhu ‘anha (may Allāh be pleased with her), daughter of Muhammad ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him).
These amazing women are prime examples of productivity for modern Muslim women who want to achieve the right balance between their family life, work and most importantly their deen. Let’s have a look at these four women and see what we can learn from them to achieve the right balance!
Khadijah
Khadijah was an unrivaled embodiment of faith, productivity and unconditional support. After her father’s death, Khadijah inherited his vast wealth and business talents and successfully managed her father’s business interests and preserved the family’s fortune.
However, she did not waste this wealth on materialistic things. She used to feed and clothe the poor, assist her relatives financially, and provide for the marriage of those of her kin who had no means to marry. Not only was she a charitable and wealthy businesswoman, but a caring wife who was the first to believe in and support the Prophet Muhammad ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him).
Of Khadijah raḍyAllāhu ‘anha (may Allāh be pleased with her), the Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said:
“The best of the world’s women is Mary (in her lifetime), and the best of the world’s women is Khadijah (in her lifetime).” [Bukhari]
Furthermore, Aisha raḍyAllāhu ‘anha (may Allāh be pleased with her) narrated:
“I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) as much as I did of Khadijah (although) she died before he married me, for I often heard him mentioning her, and Allah had told him to give her the good tidings that she would have a palace of Qasab (i.e. pipes of precious stones and pearls in Paradise), and whenever he slaughtered a sheep, he would send her women-friends a good share of it.” [Bukhari]
Fatimah
Fatimah is also a legendary beacon of productivity and balance: a fervent worshipper of Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He) who was deeply committed to her family. She was a loyal wife, an excellent daughter as well as a keen helper of the poor and needy. She would often give all the food she had to those in need even if she herself remained hungry. Her life with Ali raḍyAllāhu ‘anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) was simple and frugal, yet she remained content with this and was still able to help the poor.
Additionally, Fatimah would often bring her two sons to see their grandfather who was exceedingly fond of them. Despite the hardwork and time she had to put into her daily chores, she never forgot the importance of family bonding and prioritized it in her life.
Fatimah’s raḍyAllāhu ‘anha (may Allāh be pleased with her) closeness to Rasul Allah ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) and the greatness of his love for her shines clearly in his ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) statement:
“Fatimah is a part of me, and he who makes her angry, makes me angry.” [Bukhari]
Maryam
The Qur’an witnesses and declares Maryam to be the best woman that will ever exist: a role model for all Muslim women of all ages for her impeccable character. Her genuine devotion to and trust in Allah reflected her perfect worship and behavior.
She became pregnant by Allah’s decree and was to deliver her child all alone. People accused her of the vilest sins, yet she resisted pessimism and displayed immense willpower, determination and faith in Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He). She surrendered to Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He) and placed her fullest trust in His plan and was therefore unaffected by their accusations. In this day and age, it can be easy to lose trust in Allah and surrender to sadness, but Maryam’s life is a reminder to us that His help will always come if we persevere in trusting Him, and through it the highest levels of productivity can be achieved.
Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He) exalts Maryam’s mention in the Qur’an and declares her as being devoutly obedient to Allah in the following verse:
“And [the example of] Mary, the daughter of ‘Imran, who guarded her chastity, so We blew into [her garment] through Our angel, and she believed in the words of her Lord and His scriptures and was of the devoutly obedient.” [Qur’an: Chapter 66, Verse 12]
Asiya
Asiya’s greatness lies in the fact that although she was the wife of one of the most powerful, arrogant and tyrannical rulers of Egypt, she had a discerning heart that was able to see and accept the truth in the message of Prophet Musa [as]. For her, wealth, beauty or status was not the main criterion of human excellence: she realised that without faith in Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He), a human being has nothing. She voluntarily gave up all the luxuries of Pharoah’s comfortable palaces for what is more lasting and beautiful: becoming closer to Allah.
Allah had chosen Asiya to nurture and protect Musa ‘alayhi’l-salām (peace be upon him) when he was an infant. When her maids brought the cradle of Musa ‘alayhi’l-salām (peace be upon him) from the river, she insisted to Pharaoh that she wanted to adopt the infant as a child. Her selflessness proved her to be a loving mother to him.
In Surah At Tahrim, Allah subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He) makes Asiya raḍyAllāhu ‘anha (may Allāh be pleased with her) an example of excellence for all the believers when He subḥānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He) says:
“And Allah has set forth an example for those who believe, the wife of Pharaoh, when she said: “My Lord! Build for me a home with You in Paradise, and save me from Pharaoh and his work, and save me from the people who are Zalimun (polytheists, wrong-doers and disbelievers in Allah).” [Qur’an: Chapter 66, Verse 11]
~Ayesha Salahuddin~
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